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PREGNANCY + INFANT LOSS RESOURCES

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We are so, so sorry you're here.

If you're reading this, chances are a baby you love has died. And we know from experience that there is absolutely nothing worse. We are so very sorry.

We want you to know that you are not alone. And as impossible as it seems, you will survive this. We didn't believe it, either. But we made it. You will too. And just like our babies, the baby you are missing will always be a part of your family.

And we'll be there for you, too, every step of the way.

The resources below were compiled by bereaved parents and families of stillborn babies from our team at PUSH. These are the things that brought us comfort in our time of greatest need. Everyone grieves differently, and that's okay. But we all deserve support. We hope you find what's right for you.


Please do not hesitate to contact us if you need anything at all. Hang in there.

 

--Lots of love from all of us at PUSH

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BOOKS

For Adults

CHILDREN'S BOOKS

WEBSITES

& Online Communities

PODCASTS
& FILMS

RESOURCES

For Finding Answers

FINANCIAL SUPPORT

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Social Media & Discussion Groups

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MEMORIAL ITEMS

SUPPORT

Therapists, Mentors & Support Groups

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PERSONAL BLOGS

Special Interests...

PREGNANCY AFTER LOSS

Father and Son

DADS & PARTNERS

BIPOC FAMILIES

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LGBTQ+ FAMILIES

TFMR FAMILIES

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For Adults

An Exact Replica of a Figment of My Imagination: A Memoir by Elizabeth McCracken

Empty Cradle, Broken Heart: Surviving the Death of Your Baby by Deborah L. Davis

It's OK That You're Not OK: Grief in a Culture That Doesn't Understand by Megan Devine

Unimaginable: Life After Baby Loss by Brooke Taylor

You Are the Mother of All Mothers: A Message of Hope for the Grieving Heart by Angela Miller

A Bereaved Father by Steve Younis

A Guide for Fathers: When a Baby Dies by Tim Nelson

A Time to Decide, a Time to Heal

After the Loss of Your Baby: For Teen Mothers by Connie Nykiel

Bearing the Unbearable: Love, Loss, and the Heartbreaking Path of Grief by Joanne Cacciatore

Bowing to Light: A Mother’s Journey Through Grief by Rachael Maier

Breathe: A Memoir of Motherhood, Grief, and Family Conflict by Kelly Kittel

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For Children

Dear Star Baby by Malcolm Newsome

I Am STILL a Big Brother by Bella Mody

I'm Still a Big Sister by Brittany & Eliza Day

Perfectly Imperfect Family by Amie Lands

These Precious Little People by Frankie Brunker

Forever Connected by Jessica Correnti

A Birthday Present for Daniel by Juliet Cassuto Rothman

A Rainbow Baby Story by Crystal A. Falk

Always My Twin by Valerie R. Samuels

Always Remember by Cece Meng

Happy Tears & Rainbow Babies by Natasha Carlow

I Miss the Baby by Irma Prosser

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& Online Communities

#StillCounts Awareness Campaign

Glow in the Woods

Griffin Cares Guide to Blocking Triggers Online

October 15th Wave of Light

PUSH Guide to Pregnancy After Loss

PUSH Guide to Stillbirth Certificates & Tax Credits

PUSH Questions to Ask During Pregnancy & PAL

Pregnancy After Loss Support

Sad Dads Club

#LGBTBabyLoss

A Heartbreaking Choice

Aubry's Advocate

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& Films

Podcasts

At a Total Loss with Katherine Lazar

Guys and Grief

Sacred Birth Circle with Ana Vick

Smooth Stones with Amy Watson

Be Still Be Aware

Coming Back with Shelby Forsythia

Confessions of a Grieving Mother

Dad Still Standing

Lucky Anchor Project

Preparing for Pregnancy After Loss

Rainbow Baby with Taylor Bates

Sisters in Loss with Erica McAfee

Films

Don't Talk About the Baby (2018)

Pieces of a Woman (2020)

Return to Zero (2014)

The Deafening Silence (2013)

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For Finding Answers
& Education

Measure the Placenta

PUSH Guide to Finding Answers After Your Loss

Rainbow Clinics & PAL Providers

Return to Zero: HOPE

Stillbirth Facts & Graphics

Count the Kicks (Healthy Birth Day)

Finding Your Way After Loss

International Stillbirth Alliance (ISA)

MAMA Academy

March of Dimes: Dealing with Grief After the Death of Your Baby

Plain Talk Pregnancy

Seleni Institute

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Assistance for Funeral, Burial, Cremation, Etc.

Adalyn Rose Foundation

Angel Gowns

Angel Names Association

Funeralocity

Kelly Ryan Foundation

Love, Jessica

Ohana Foundation Inc.

Rebecca's Reason

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Social Media Accounts & Discussion Groups

An Unexpected Family Outing

Orangeafmama - Junie's Mom

PUSH for Empowered Pregnancy

Sad Dads Club

Small Placenta Stillbirth Group

Still My Son

StillCounts Campaign

Stillbirth Mama Fighting for Light

Surviving Siblings

Umbilical Cord Accidents (UCA) Support and Education

Wood Nails & Cotton

Adrian's Elephant

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Memorial Items, Art & Photography Services

#StillCounts Personalized Gear

Custom Shirts, Mugs, Etc.

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Now I Lay Me Down to Sleep

Heirloom Portraits & Photo Retouching

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Hollyday Designs

Breastmilk Jewelry

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Adalyn Rose Foundation

Care Packages (Parents & Siblings)

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Artful Ashes

Cremation Art Glass

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Close By Me

Cremation Jewelry

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A Beautiful Remembrance

Custom Memorial Artwork

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Lyon's Legacy

Custom Memorial Artwork

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Mother of Wilde

Custom Memorial Artwork

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Wood Nails & Cotton

Custom Memorial Artwork

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Made Known Loved

Custom Memorial Artwork & Ornaments

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A Bit of Whimsy

Custom Pencil Drawings

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Therapists, Support Groups & Peer Mentors

Griffin Cares

Katherine Hyde Hensley

Luxor Men's Collective

PSI: Perinatal Loss Provider Directory

Return to Zero: HOPE - Counselor List

Return to Zero: HOPE - Support Groups

Shades of Blue Project

The ARIAH Foundation

Rachel's Gift

Rock Goodbye Angel

Experience Camps for Grieving Children

HAND Virtual Support Groups

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& Personal Blogs

Alana by Samantha Durante Banerjee

An Unexpected Family Outing

Black Angel Mom

By the Brooke

Charlotte’s Purpose

Dear Luke

Diary of an Almost Father

Happy Sad Mama

Here Comes the Sun

Hurt by Homebirth

Just Ella Bella: Losing Logan

Less Than 1%: Surviving My Stillborn

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Blogs
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Pregnancy After Loss Resources

Kicks Count Counting Wristband

Apps & Tools

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Ready for a Rainbow PAL Affirmation Cards

Apps & Tools

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Believe Her (Peer Support for Black Birthing People)

Apps & Tools

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Count the Kicks

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Flutter Care

Apps & Tools

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Irth (Reviews of Providers for BIPOC Patients)

Apps & Tools

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My Empowered Pregnancy

Apps & Tools

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PALS Pregnancy After Loss Support App

Apps & Tools

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& Non-Birthing Parent Resources

A Bereaved Father by Steve Younis

Books (For Adults)

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A Guide for Fathers: When a Baby Dies by Tim Nelson

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From Father to Father: Letters from Loss Dad to Loss Dad by Emily R. Long

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Grieving Dads: To the Brink and Back by Kelly Farley & David DiCola

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Strong and Tender: From Perinatal Loss, a Guide for Fathers by Pat Schwiebert

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Table For Five: A Father’s Story of Life, Love and Loss by Ted Yang

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Three Minus One: Stories of Parents' Love and Loss by Sean Hanish

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Educational Resources

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Black, Indigenous & People of Color Resources

Believe Her (Peer Support for Black Birthing People)

Apps & Tools

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Irth (Reviews of Providers for BIPOC Patients)

Apps & Tools

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When the Heartbeat Stops: Women Breaking the Silence by JaRonda Dockett

Books (For Adults)

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Always My Twin by Valerie R. Samuels

Children's Books

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Welcome to the Party by Gabrielle Union

Children's Books

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Return to Zero: HOPE

Educational Resources

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Black Angel Mom

Personal Blogs

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Sisters in Loss with Erica McAfee

Podcasts

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Resources for LGBTQ+ Loss Parents

Reproductive Losses: Challenges to LGBTQ Family-Making by Christa Craven

Books (For Adults)

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Return to Zero: HOPE

Educational Resources

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The Worst Girl Gang Ever

Podcasts

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PUSH for Empowered Pregnancy

Social Media Accounts & Discussion Groups

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StillCounts Campaign

Social Media Accounts & Discussion Groups

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r/BabyLoss (Reddit)

Social Media Accounts & Discussion Groups

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r/PregnancyAfterLoss (Reddit)

Social Media Accounts & Discussion Groups

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r/TTCAfterLoss (Reddit)

Social Media Accounts & Discussion Groups

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Termination for Medical Reasons Resources

A Time to Decide, a Time to Heal

Books (For Adults)

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Bowing to Light: A Mother’s Journey Through Grief by Rachael Maier

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Waiting with Gabriel: A Story of Cherishing a Baby's Brief Life By Amy Kuebelbeck

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Our Baby Is Going to Die Series: Loss of a Sibling Due to TFMR by Katrina Villegas

Children's Books

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Return to Zero: HOPE

Educational Resources

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Sisters in Loss with Erica McAfee

Podcasts

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The Worst Girl Gang Ever

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